Author: Nir Eyal
Subtitle: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life
TLDR; Being indistractable is a superpower of people leaving happy lives according to their own values and beliefs. In his book, Nir Eyal gives everything you need to understand and gain that power to change your own life for the better.
Nir is the author of Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products and Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life. He was taught as a Lecturer in Marketing at the Stanford Graduate School of Business and Design School, and sold two technology companies since 2003.
Nir worked in the video gaming and advertising industries where he learned and applied the techniques used to motivate and manipulate users. He writes to help companies create behaviors that benefit their users while educating people on how to build healthful habits in their own lives.
This book is for anybody, who wants to live their own life, aligned with own values and driven by conscious choices.
How to read
Nir was kind enough and gave precise recommendation on this, so I have nothing to add there.
You’re welcome to navigate the four steps to becoming indistractable however you like, but I recommend you proceed in order through parts one to four.
That’s what I did, and have zero regrets. However, if you don’t like to read books in order or prefer learning by examples, Nir covered you as well:
If you’re the kind of person who likes to learn by exmpalpe, and you want to see these tactics in action first, feel free to read parts fine and on, then come back through the first four parts for a deeper explanation.
I was impressed by the amount of great reviews at the beginning of the book. There are several pages of them, but I was already hooked by reading the first several reviews.
The book is very well-structured and easy to follow. Relatively short chapters allow getting joy from the book step by step. It’s nice that each chapter ends with
Remember this section holding the major ideas, so it will be easy to quickly refresh some key points in memory. In addition to that, there is a
Chapter Takeaways section at the end of the book for a supersonic look back.
Language used in the book is of high quality, in my opinion, it is very expressive and precise. I’m not a native speaker and had to use a translator from time to time to get more accurate meaning of some words, which is good for me as I learned some new words phrases.
I liked a lot the model of traction and distraction presented in the book, and was surprised that modern tech is not the source of the distraction problem, but human brain is. It was also interesting to read how brain structures and behaviors which helped us to survive over the ages are preventing us from feeling comfort for too long.
Furthermore, there are enough tips on how to explore distractions, deal with internal and external triggers, and stay focused on what really matters. Ideas and tools mentioned in the book look simple and obvious (after you read them), yet insightful at the same time. It’s easy to try them out, and I’ve already started validating them on practice. Don’t have enough results to share yet, but I’m very excited at the moment and curious where I will get to in the next months.
Sharing my favorite quotes as is, and letting you make your own conclusions.
Living the life we want requires not only doing the right things; it also requires we stop doing the wrong things that take us off track.
It’s good to know that feeling bad isn’t actually bad; it’s exactly what survival of the fittest intended.
While we can’t control the feelings and thoughts that pop into our heads, we can control what we do with them.
you are only powerless if you think you are.
Think of all the locks, security systems, and storage units we use to protect our property and how little we do to protect our time.
You can’t call something a distraction unless you know what it’s distracting you from.
Staying late at work or feeling pressured to reply to work-related messages after hours means spending less time with our family and friends or doing something for ourselves.
This review is barely a tip of the iceberg. I encourage you getting the book (FYI, I’m not affiliated), reading it from cover to cover, and becoming the main stakeholder in your life!